Showing posts with label Childhood Memories. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Childhood Memories. Show all posts

Saturday, May 9, 2009

SWEET ABIDING HOUSE OF JOY


"Cleanliness is next to godliness" is one of those arbitrary exhortations that mamas use to suppress bath-time protests. I have never understood how washing behind one's ears has placement in the grand scheme of holy living, but purity of heart, singleness of mind, and fullness of spirit bring wholeness to one's being. A prayer for cleansing fires passion and praise, and surrender forces an affinity to something greater. A clearly defined spiritual peace washed over me in the crispness of one particular October morning, as I absorbed the freshness of a Smoky Mountain dawn.I checked the progress of the developing fall foliage againset the azure sky. Sweetum, sugar maple, and dogwood were displayed like rows of old fashioned candy jars, standing in nature's confectionery of red, purple, yellow, and orange. Woodsmoke from the chimneys of the "burg"evoked a variety of sensorial recollections in which to lose myself. Family camping trips with scores of relatives singing by the bonfire, and evenings at home with daddy searing sausages over an open flame forom the living room hearth transported me. The childhood adventure of making coffee over a backyard "army" campfire established a life-long love for the hot brew, outdoors, and the night life. A little dime-store aluminum pot, with the glass percolator top, would be blackened by unobstructed flames. That first dark bubble of Maxwell House would be highly anticipated by us boys - brothers, cousins, and neighbors. That fragrant blip of the real man's elixir signaled all to be at the ready with his individual mix of sugar and milk - lots of it. We would have already presented our mugs of choice, some saying "world's best dad", another depicting a hillbilly dancing, or one that said Cherokee North Carolina. Here we were free to pour the strong solution into a saucer and slurp it the way Papa Kay did. Of course, mama would not let us do this at Momzi's table where her matching Country Roses China (or some knockoff thereof) made the coffee extra good.Without a doubt, waking up to the smell of breakfast in her happy home ensured no disappointments for a day. We would emerge from the cold back rooms into the embrace of the oil heater's warmth. There, finding the guardians of our heritage about their work, we were children. The crack of the linoleum, underneath the armless rocker, kept perfect cadence with the occupant's rhythmic movement. One good natured Marine making the best of his infrequent furloughs, happy just to be surrounded by his kids and his sweet Betty Rose. For all the things grieved for, loss of fellowship, unconditional love, and wise counsel, I long for the subtleties that were taken for granted. The look of contentment on the lanky boy from Batesburg was a constant image of the warrior. This "mighty man" of Psalms, softened by a glimpse of his legacy, saw reward in the fruits of his labor and sacrifice, armed with the arrows of posterity. What did he see or know of our future?

Wednesday, May 6, 2009

I Remember


The white frame house on whose steps I played diaper clad and asked for choc-it ice cream.Sleeping in the crib when company came and loving every minute of it.Asking the ice cream man in Albany GA for an Eck-ee-moe pie and being embarrassed when he laughed at me.The spit of snow we had one time in south Georgia and dancing around with Lori Rivera catching snowflakes in our little mittens.The smell of leather upholstery and heat in the big black car that drove me to kindergarten, the big blackheaded lady who picked me up, the big blackheaded lady who taught me, and the big black crayon she gave me instructing me to color an entire piece of paper.The weak half a Dixie cup of orange ade and soft vanilla cookies with red jelly centers for our snack.Wanting to stay in bed and never go to kindergarten again.Mama saying okay.The glorious smell of grape soda we got at the military commissary.Playing Hangman with Shayne in the car while daddy shopped at the commissary.The purple treehouse with white polka dots in someone's yard near downtown Albany.The Piggly Wiggly Store, Five Points Grocery, the theater seen from my bedroom window.Daddy letting me get back up after Erik and Shayne had gone to bed to watch the Arthur Smith show and eat Neopolitan ice cream and sugar wafers.Mama telling me after we were grown not to tell Erik and Shayne so they wouldn't feel badly.Seeing the kitchen light on under my door, hearing daddy open a bag of snacks and falling asleep in self pity.The rose that a Marine colonel gave me off his trellis to give to mama and the safe place in the dash where I kept it until daddy and I got home.Laying on army blankets on the bare floor of our new residence after being transferred to Norfolk VA, hearing children playing outside, sitting on suitcases to eat at a table left by previous owners, the smell of cooking gas.The small hedge separating our small front yard from the sidewalk, the pieces of slate leading up to the front steps, the cold shady gray concrete bleachers on each side where friends and I would recline.The gold colored 8617 address plate above the door, the small tree between the walk and the street where I fit perfectly in it's embrace.The Bozo lunch box , the wax paper, the medicine bottle full of chocolate syrup to kill the "cowy" taste of the half-pint school milk.The wet lunch trays and my imagination of how they got that way.The smell and vivid colors of the paints in art class - the huge brushes and the ominous iron gate pushed against the wall, beyond where the upper grades began.The scores of rubber balls and jump ropes as we performed like a juvenile athletic dance troupe from China during gym.Mr. Whitson, the P.E. teacher, his grin, and my thinking it was because of my inferior physical performance.

Ode to the Ole House in Powdersville

It wasn't the knobs on the shower faucet being backwards or the television whose colors changed depending on which part of the livingroom you walked through. It wasn't even the upside down light swtich that made me say, "enough is enough" . The night I tripped over the Gym-Pac, fell in a swivel chair and rolled into my bedroom catching my robe on the place where the doorknob wasn't, I began to reflect on how easily one arranges his life around the negatives.We were always the type family that thought the worst when something went wrong - a burned out lightbulb meant a faulty wiring system, a clogged drain most likely had it's root a hundred feet uderground and a spot on the carpet would require a complete room renovation. This attitude has been the root of my bent toward procrastination. When we had our bathroom remodeled we were like cave men seeing the wheel for the first time. We never realized the floor could be level, the walls sparkling, and the toilet silent. I don't know - I had sort of grown fond of the little Clemson football helmet lamp with no shade that was confiscated from little brother Joel's room when the bathroom light shorted out - we were right that time - it did require an attic visit by an electrician. For a year after that we kept telling people the kitchen light also had a short in it until mama decided - uhh just for the heck of it to change the light bulb - IT WORKED!!

Movin' Up Sunday

The smell of my new Sunday School book stifles the imagined essence of Mama's awaiting past noon repast;CHICKEN LEGS AND TATER SALAT, THE MAN PREACHES TOO LONG, AND THE CHEESE IS SURELY ELBOWING IT'S WAY THROUGH MUELLER'S PASTA THRONGI'm in the intermediate department now -brother won't be able to work my puzzles now - there aren't any;KEEP THE STRAWBERRIES - GIVE ME THE CAKE, JUICE AND BIRD'S EYE.DADDY SAYS IT'S NOT REAL CREAM, BUT IT MAKES NO DIFFERENCE TO MY PECAN PIEAre we gonna have to read these lessons on our own? The print's too small, the teacher's probably gonna be borin';IF I HAD MY WAY THER'D BE A WATER COOLER BESIDE EVERY HYMNBOOK, LET ME HAVE A GLASS OF SWEET ICE TEA BEFORE I DIE - GET ME OFF THE HOOK.The preacher's talkin' 'bout goin' up, (this is what the Superintendant calls promotion Sunday) but he's not talkin' about Sunday School now - it is about a better day. He's almost through now - what did I miss? They ARE right, I don't need Jacob's Ladder crosswords now - it's time to listen.....In Jesus' name, Amen. PASS THE BREAD PLEASE - TURKEY AND DRESSING AND SWEET POTATO PIE? Sunday's sure are a changin', nobody told me "goin' up" would be like this. Kip Powell

From the Banks of Clouds Creek


The midland Carolina river road that sliced through Clouds Creek was illuminated by a nearly full moon. Soon it would be a harvest moon, or as daddy called it, a "yokum moon". I never asked him what that meant, so my imagination had conjured up "kinfolk" staring into the indian summer night sky from the vantage point of a swing on the piazza. Why his people called the porch by that name is another mystery. That place would have been the focal point of entertaining as the household and an assortment of guests might volley with words and phrases not recognized by most of the English speaking world. That influence is felt when I am among that other world, like an anthropological find run amok in concrete jungles, I hear those voices and I either hide the speech or fast forward into a semi-geechee accent. I can blend, whether in a slalom around a throng of irritable New York taxis, sharing a bit of craic with an Irish pub owner, or shootin' the bull with a street hustler. I can walk away with my money, humor, AND life intact.The sun has offered it's final dusky bow and I am resisting the beckoning glow of the Waffle House's yellow and black trademark sign. Saturday night, late, on a truck route, nowhere else to eat for the post honky-tonkers clamoring out of the bars before they stagger into their cribs among the government pines. Their satellite dishes set ready like big plates at a family reunion offering everything under the sun. As I pass the shotgun style diner I glimpse the surreal activity inside - a sort of redneck Cirque du Soleil and blend of broken dreams all in one. "Come back to the five and dime", "prop me up next to the jukebox when I die" and rockabilly the night away with pecan waffles and eggs - grits with every order.That luminescent sphere, a herald to the pleasantness of the summer twilight cool - twenty degrees less until mid-morning. I pay homage to this gift by opening my car window to receive unidentifiable fragrances and sounds. I speed through pockets of cool air as I approach creeks, branches, and streams and I am entranced by the hypnotic cadence of tree frogs. These are the same sounds that frightened me as a child sleeping in the old Powell homeplace - great granddaddy's clapboard house with no screens on the open windows and a spooky goat that used to run around the wrap-around porch. Once he chased me into the house through the breezeway that ran through the center of that entire civil war era home. The most dreaded place in that house, besides the clawfoot bathtub with questionable discoloration that I thought, as a child,would run away with me in it, was the kitchen, believe it or not. This is where I thought swamp creatures were prepared and we would be required to consume them with no snurling or gagging. Poor ole Aunt Lillie never learned to cook growing up with servants and probably never tried until she became Uncle Dan's third wife. What I thought was gravy was revealed when mama scooped up a ladle of grease two inches thick which protected a large bowl of hash underneath. I quickly reached for the redeeming bowl of rice and filled my plate while mama watched me cautiously, sympathetically, and dreadfully. Retiring to the parlor was a welcome respite from this wretched repast. Aunt Lillie would play the pump organ and cry while Erik, Shayne, and I sang "Tell Me the Old Old Story" and "The Old Country Church". This Victorian room with the bay type window prevalent in old southern homes looked like something from Petticoat Junction. Jim Butler was Uncle Dan's second wife's brother who was their "drivah". I never saw him do anything else and it took them several hours to get to our house in Powdersville because he was required to drive slowly. He always carried his billed cap in his hand and his gold toothed smile intrigued me as much as his soft geechee accent. Everyone said he was "sweet" on Aunt Annabelle Abrams who also had a gold tooth. She caused a stir among the family when she "paahked" her mobile home in Uncle Dan's yard. "Waitin' to get everthin' when he dies" was the talk. Bless their hearts - they had to eat alot of hash for nothing - the step-daughter got it all. Her son Mr. Bledsoe got the house and land, remodeled, stripping away all the spirit of the old homeplace while preserving the physical building. We take refreshment out on the porch - simply lemonade - yum, give me a big glass mama. I don't know if lemon scented Pine Sol was on the market then but Aunt Lillie concocted something that she should have used on that bathtub. Okay enough of this, no sleep, no food, no drink, sad sing-a-longs with Pearl Bodine. Let's walk across the road to Uncle Bud and Aunt Kate's, who haven't spoken to the other folks in years. They live with daddy's old maid cousin Helen and Brownie, the country chihuahua. Uncle Bud was sitting in his truck when we arrived. He said, "Lurris, ya wanna go dawn t'da wallamellon patch?" We boys jump in the back of the truck expecting a long country road journey. Uncle Bud drives directly behind the house and stops.........this is it? Aunt Kate fills her kitchen with the best smelling and tasting southern cooking but doesn't cook in abundance. Mama whispers for us not to "take out" too much. Aunt Kate cooks on a woodstove even though she has an electric one. Once Aunt Kate fired up the stove and didn't know her cat had climbed in the oven.....FELINE MIGNON!! Aunt Kate and Helen had a pet cemetery and had each grave was circled with little rocks. Another relative who flipped everyone off when she died as she left her estate to her animals. Kate and Bud had a son named Bubba ( I swannee that is right) and his wife's name was Mickey who lived across the road also. Mickey was a career woman they said with mocking tone or pride, I couldn't figure. What career in these parts, Mary Kay Million Dollar Seller? No pink cadillac to show for it, unless she had a model one of Elvis'. Vivacious Helen, the "old maid" stayed with her parents until she died of cancer. She worked at the only mill in town and received very few mourners at her funeral at the very small mortuary. The service was held in a small room with us seated in chairs that didn't even match. From the nonactivity on the road to the dress rehearsal funeral, I expected to see Rod Serlling standing aside espousing a provocative moral fitting to this Stepford scene. I step back from this black/white memory into a shaded one as I hear Bubba Jr. (Wayne Powell) telling Uncle Bud "Gran-diddy, come ovah heah and sit in a chaah with ahms - ya need a chaah with ahms." I knew that not only was this the beginning of our disappearing history but it would leave a big absence soon. I had the opportunity then to appreciate the legacy and snatch my heritage immemorial. The spirits of generations can be felt among those homes, graves, and churches.Uncle Herman Dowd was Chief of Police in Johnston SC. I couldn't wait to see this icon of family lore. I expected a Rod Steiger "In the Heat of the Night" type but actually encountered a much more colorful reality. There a uniformed robust gent leaned back in a cane bottom chair against, I presumed, the police station. It looked more like a sentry's guard house and set curiously next to the railroad tracks that ran parallel to the strip of businesses on main street. On the other side of the rails big houses followed the road into deeper country. These weren't plantation homes per se so I wondered how the families that built them supported their construction financially.Everyone is gone now, then, we were modern children visiting something foreign and dispensable. Now, more than 30 years later, we have become the history that is to be told, treasured, and longed for.

Charlie Brown Easter

The last time I was at a Kay Easter egg hunt, I realized that I am no better at hunting them than when I was a child. When the aunt or uncle in charge hollered "GO", all I would see were my cousins and siblings running directly to all the best hiding places. It was only a blur to me. Waves of color washed over me and I remember feeling delirious. The older cousins would later patrol the hunting area helping anyone with the fewest eggs in his/her basket, so now at the word GO, each little one would run to one of us for an assured "golden egg" find or a two-dozen egg blitz. It mattered not that I helped hide the hundred plus eggs. An old trauma resurfaced.....my ears started to ring....(oh, someone had found an egg under an old cow bell). I could not even see a pink or yellow egg. Forget about the green and blue ones. Someone hollered for me to help Heath - he had only five eggs. Such a nice young fellow - he trusts me. It was sort of like having the government ask me to keep an eye on its nuclear weapons while it went to the bathroom. I wasn't going to drag my 4 year old nef to the depths of this endless Easter egg exile that I have endured through the years. I sent him over to the uncle who hid the golden egg. Ii have had nightmares about the dozen or so eggs that are never found. After Easter was over and everyone was gone, I would walk around looking for those last few. MY HEART POUNDS, THE THRILL IS STILL THERE. THEY ARE WAITING.. I'M WILLING. Why can't I find one? THEY know I am no good at this. As I turn to leave.... THERE..in a pink dogwood tree five feet from the ground I see a multi-colored oval shaped piece of art. The egg that someone had so patiently dipped in six different colors from lightest to darkest shades and overlooked by fourteen pairs of little eyes.....AH EASTER!!!!

Miz Pinson's

The creak of the armless rocking chair sawing away at the linoleum entrances my seven-year old body. Silence pulses a breathless stream from my place in daddy's lap to the steady tick of the cuckoo clock, where Momzi pulls the chains with the cones at each end to set the time. Mama and Momzi talk in soothingly audible whispers while daddy keeps time with the rocker by drumming on my belly - "thrump, thrump, thrump". Bedtime comes gradually, so then much more acceptably as my semi-concious soul is floated into one of the crisp, cold back rooms and placed as if in Dorothy's poppy field, beneath sun-drenched linens and half a dozen heavy quilts. My exposed nose gathers in the smell of dusting powder from the bureau and the faint securing sounds of my protectors fade at last into nothing- no dreams, even pleasant ones would take away from the spirit cleansing peace of that nothingness. but a gracious awakening in the form and fragrance of bacon, grits, coffee, eggs, and broiled buttered toast brings me back to reality. To have the best time of my life I would have to return to that little house on Paris Mountain, those people, and this memory.

Coming to Greenville 1960's

Once upon a childhood, Greenville favored. Smaller towns routed through and viewed, shortcuts from bases regional to homes and hearths of extended family, the journey in sweet anticipation serenaded by daddy's tenor, mama's alto, and coming of age sibling harmony. Dawn commencement fragranced by the fresh linen smell of pillows cleanly cased, with perfumed toiletry and makeup cases lastly placed. Onward pilgrims pioneering joy, the happiest couple before us, still solid ground behind, below.Really scary bathrooms in real service stations a dread but NEHI drinks from an outdoor icebox and confections a comforting prospect at the country store, a timely soothe accompanied by the creaking cadence of foosteps across the old-time wooden floors; jarred by "djah fine sumpin ya lack dahlin'" and an even more awakening, loving hard pat on the face from that midland Carolina accented protector.Kip Powell